How to Start Crocheting Without Getting Overwhelmed – Make a Crochet Coaster
A no-fluff guide from one beginner to another
When I first decided to learn crochet, I didn’t expect to be so confused before I even made my first stitch. There were yarn types I’d never heard of, a sea of hook sizes, new terminology (what on earth is a “frogged project”?), and a feeling of, “Wait, where do I even begin?”
If you’re feeling that way right now, you’re not alone. And you’re in the right place. I started Yarn Bear because I wished there had been one place where someone broke it all down, like a friend explaining it over a cup of coffee.
So here’s my take: a beginner’s beginner guide to starting crochet, without the overwhelm.
Start with Just One Hook and Yarn
You don’t need a full kit to begin. One medium-sized hook (like a 3mm or 4mm) and a light-colored, medium-weight yarn (I used cotton yarn) is enough. Avoid dark yarns at first, they make it harder to see your stitches.
Yarn Bear Tip: Look for cotton or acrylic yarn labelled “beginner friendly” or “anti-pilling.” Soft, smooth yarns are easier to manage.
Forget the Fancy Stuff — Learn the Basics First
Focus on these three things to start:
- How to hold the hook and yarn comfortably
- How to make a slip knot and chain (ch)
- How to do a single crochet (sc)
That’s it. Really. You don’t need to know all the stitches or understand complex patterns right away.
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Make Peace with Ugly First Projects
Your first swatch will look wonky. Your chains may be too tight or too loose. You might not even know where to insert the hook. That’s okay. My first “square” turned into a trapezoid, and I kept it as a reminder that progress matters more than perfection.
Learn the Language Bit by Bit
Crochet comes with its own vocabulary: frogging, gauge, dc, C2C, turning chain… Don’t try to learn it all in one go. Just look up terms as you encounter them. Over time, you’ll pick up the lingo without trying.
Pick a Small, Satisfying First Project – Make a Crochet Coaster
Once you’re confident with chain, single crochet and double crochet, try a small project, make a crochet coaster! A simple granny square used as a coaster can be your first project. These give you the joy of finishing something without being overwhelming.
Don’t Go It Alone
Find a crochet community on Instagram, or local craft groups (reach out to me). Sharing your journey, asking questions, and celebrating wins together makes a huge difference.
Create a Crochet Ritual
Set aside time once or twice a week with your yarn, hook, and favourite beverage. Crochet is not just a hobby, it’s mindfulness with texture. Make it something you look forward to.
Final Thoughts
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: you don’t need to be “naturally crafty” to crochet. You just need to be curious and patient with yourself. Every crocheter starts somewhere. And if you’re starting here, welcome! You’ve got Yarn Bear rooting for you.
PS: Frogging is a term knitters and crocheters use for undoing the cloth or the work you have done so far for various reasons. After finishing multiple rounds you notice that the project looks wonky as you have missed the pattern and you need to undo or unravel the work to do it right.
I told you so! Crochet teaches patience.